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My family-an emotional timebomb.
:my mum:her emotional pain i cant cure,can onli listen while it kills mi slowly

:my brother:his emotional outbursts n impulsiveness only leads to 1 thing-more bullshit

:my sis-in-law:being a divorcee wif 3 growing children and an Unsupportive,biased siblings wif a crazed ex-husband,i cant claim to understand wat she's going thru but i know it is not easy.No happy ending in sight either wif my brother or without.

:my nephew:Being dragged away by his father,being dragged off to his maternal grandparents' hse after the divorce.
:Being 'mentally' abused by his maternal uncles/aunts because he looks like his father.Being 'mentally' abused because they favour his sisters more.
:Being physically sick with his asthma and a growth at his down-below,and his parents too busy wif their own feelings to care abt him.
:Being told to 'shut up' every so often because he loves to talk,and over there,nobody wants to listen to him unlike here,my mum n sometimes me,try to entertain him ("Grandma,if ppl don't talk,they'll become stupid,right"said my nephew)

:my eldest niece: My fear is that she'll grow up to become someone wayward or worse, a bitch. Though i tried to advise her the last time we had a 'serious' talk(as serious as one can gets wif an 8yr old eating her KFC chicky meal) over at her maternal's grandparents place,she's simply the Queen.

Nobody is telling her or helping her to study(like my brother and i used to do)everybody there is pampering her so whateva she does wrong is considered 'right' because her brother will get the blame. Already she missed more school("my mum wont force me to go to school when its raining"said my niece) than she attends them,n she don't care because she don't care abt school,and nobody over there cares abt her lack of 'education'(because all of them there were also uneducated and had never known the impt of education)

What's worse, she's only 8 year old and growing up not caring abt school and caring more abt her pretty face and boys and the fact that she is adorable.

:me:watching it all,listening to it all,tryin not to show dat i care so at least i'll feel detached enough to think it all thru..The day that my brother dragged my nephew away,i was tellin my mum the child is abused-mentally.he needs help.both for his health as well as emotional needs.

my mum's physical pain i can help to lessen..my mum's emotional pain over losing her grandchildren and bearing the fact that my nephew is gone n is being 'mentally' abused at the maternal grandparents' place kills her more...i really dunno wat i can do,besides attemptin to kidnap my nephew..har har

its an emotional timebomb-especially my nephew and there's nothing my family n i can do since his mum already dragged him off..there's only Hope-that both the parents wake up in time to see what is really happening to their kids b4 sumthing really happens to their kids...seriously,a divorce cant get any messier than this...

posted by Siti Nuraishah @ 1:54 PM